It’s Just an Experience

Matthew Christodoulou February 9, 2010 5

istock_000002680448xsmall As we go about our daily lives I have found that many of us, myself included, tend to focus great amounts of stress and negative emotion towards experiences that present to us. Yes, sometimes our experiences may be quite intense but It does not matter what the experience is, the important part is in how we cope with it. Most often, as a reaction to an intense experience, we ask ourselves “Why me!?”. Instead of asking why me, try asking “Why not me!?”. We, as in humanity, tend to victimize ourselves and dwell on our experiences and at the same time do not realize how we are hindering our perception of what is and also blocking our clarity and ability towards feeling inner peace, optimum health and gratitude towards an amazing life full of wonder and beauty on a breathtaking planet of extreme diversity.

Earth is a playground but also an evolutionary “school” for soul growth. We come here to play, experience, learn and grow. From my own experience with higher levels of consciousness, I have come to remember that Earth is actually quite an intense ride. It is the most intense experience within our universe. If you understand this, you will understand why sometimes it seems as though you cannot handle a certain situation. We are brave souls who have come to play here. We are all “Gods” in training and are much stronger than we may sometimes choose to believe. We live on a planet of duality with the polarities of light and dark. Through the human experience we play within these two polarities via love and fear. Our greatest and most memorable experiences and life lessons are learned most often in extreme circumstances. At times we may feel like we are in extreme darkness, high levels of fear, pain and suffering, or we may experience high levels of love, passion and joy. This can lead to seeming like your life is an intense emotional “roller-coaster”. However, even the seemingly not so significant experiences in our lives can lead to us holding on to them sub-consciously, thus hindering clarity and connection to the love that we are.

The key to inner peace is awareness and perception. When you view an experience as being JUST AN EXPERIENCE it dissolves any stress and negative emotion within your thoughts towards it. Most often we hold on to pain and suffering because we put more emphasis on the experience that caused those feelings than needed. They say laughter is the greatest cure. If something happens to you in your life and it seems a bit stressful, just laugh off it. I always find it comical because I understand that I am the one creating the experience. When you take full responsibility for your life and your actions you can look at yourself and say “what the heck are you stressing out for!?” and then laugh it off. To one person something may be intense and extreme but to another, it may not. It all depends where you are at in your level of soul growth and evolution. Everyone is different and on their own unique journey. I always like to say this, “be kind, for everyone is fighting their own battle within”.

Some people are experiencing deeply ingrained pain and emotional suffering because intense experiences that they have held on to. These people may not be able to just laugh it off and may need to look into getting assistance via “clearing” and “energy healing” work. We have friends who assist souls in these areas and also we here at Collective Evolution have dedicated ourselves to assisting through these means as well. If you feel the need for assistance please contact us via email: evo@collective-evolution.com

Remember that you are a soul living out a human experience. Go out and learn, play, grow and experience all that you can. We come here to experience anything and everything. What’s to be afraid of and what’s to stress about? This is not the end. It’s just an experience.

I send you my infinite and unconditional love and light,

Matthew

5 Comments »

  1. lydia February 9, 2010 at 11:16 am  (Quote) -

    Thank you, your reflexion is so beautiful. We need words like yours to take a step and see whats happening.

  2. Alanna February 9, 2010 at 2:20 pm  (Quote) -

    Very well said Matthew! What a great read. Thank you

    Peace and love,
    Alanna =)

  3. Sharon Goodwyn February 9, 2010 at 6:36 pm  (Quote) -

    I have real trouble laughing off wars, destroying and torturing lives of people and animals. Sure as an eternal being this is just a blink of an experience. But I also think we are here to care enough to do something about it. I can imagine it being me being tortured and on one hand know that it’s just an experience and some how funny but in the moment of extreme pain I doubt I will be laughing. Now if you can explain step by step how that is done, I’d like to hear it. Other wise most of the trouble the average American faces can be addressed with the wisdom of this article. I will also say, the average American could care less about what our country is doing all over the world and I don’t happen to find that funny at all.

  4. Matthew February 9, 2010 at 6:53 pm  (Quote) -

    Thanks for your comment Sharon. I completely understand where you are coming from and my heart goes out to everyone who is experiencing great turmoil in these times on this planet. However, I understand that this is not the only life we have ever lived here. I have personally been here for thousands of years, playing every different role you could think of. I’ve been tortured, murdered, been in battle with swords and shields amongst a field of death and destruction, etc. All of my experiences here of pain and suffering have empowered me greatly as a soul. I understand that you may not think it’s funny but anyone who is suffering right now has chosen to do so. We all chose the experience we wanted in order to further evolve at the soul level. Does it seem as serious to you now? I have deep compassion for my fellow brothers and sisters of humanity and all kingdoms of life on this planet and I have dedicated my life to assisting others and to make change for the better on this planet. I know that if I dwell on the suffering and pain I am only hurting myself. Sure, I cry myself to sleep some nights because I see what the world is going through and how we are enslaved by our own minds and by a race of non-human entities. I have a deeply ingrained desire and passion within my heart to see our world evolve into a world of peace, love and harmony, but me emanating negative thoughts is only hurting my own life creation, the collective Matrix and Mother Gaia. It is absolutely possible to be able to laugh and care at the same time. When you smile the world smiles with you. Laughter is contageous. You think someone who is suffering wants to see a face of sorrow? Brighten their life with your light. Shine for the world with your love so others can lift themselves from the power of your spirit. What you give is what you get. If you see a problem with the world that problem is actually within you where the very thought came from. We live on a planet of duality. Without the Dark there would be no Light. If it weren’t for the darkness we wouldn’t be able to truly appreciate the love and light that we are. Be thankful for what the darkness has shown you and live with gratitude of what you have learned here. Namaste :)

  5. george m. February 10, 2010 at 3:08 am  (Quote) -

    “The system is designed for you to fail”…
    I don’t remember who’s said that, but it is entirely true.

    Don’t let yourselves driven by fear and frustration! These are the 2 best tools used by the sick and infantile elite to divide and rule (Divide et impera).
    Unfortunately these monsters are helped by smart humans, consciously or unconsciously selling their soul for a few bucks…

    Humans of Terra (Earth, Gaia, 3rd Rock from the Sun, 7th Rock from the Sun etc) use around 8% of their mental capacity, almost 97% of their DNA is “junk DNA” and comprising of only 2 strands of a very controlled response, overwhelmed by Trojan-horse-like proteins, are manipulated by the audio-video frequencies and kept as dumbed-down puppets for a final show…

    Unfortunately, the Humans of Terra are well underway of a mass-awakening and the monsters are up for a big hit. I didn’t say “surprise”, because they were expecting this to happen, but they’ve tried everyting possible to turn back the wheels of Time… It didn’t, it doesn’t and it will not work anymore.
    For the time being. It will be up to you to awaken, because the next chance will come again after 26,000 of linear years in the same 3D Matrix of enslavement you will be trapped in.

    Recommendations? Oh, yes!

    - No matter what, DO NOT BE AFRAID of ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    - Practice The Good Deeds Protocol: Help, Share, Love
    - Be aware of your unlimited and infallible Power of Intention
    - “Be careful what you wish for”
    - “What goes around, comes around”
    - “Be the change you wish to see in the world” – Gandhi
    - Attract around you ONLY like-minded people

    LP&H,
    mg.

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