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19 Photos Of Women & Men That Destroy Conventional Gender Stereotypes

In an effort to raise awareness about and challenge gender stereotypes, 19-year old photographer Maud Fernhout has created two photo projects, called “What Real Men Cry Like” and “What Real Women Laugh Like.”

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Before writing this article, I thought of all the times I’ve laughed, and realized that I too often cover my mouth when I do it. Where did this behaviour come from? I can only assume that because gender norms are so dictated to us by society, this response was yet another example of manufactured behaviour. Why do I do this?

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My only thought is that I don’t want to show an ‘indecent’ part of myself — the inside of my mouth — and risk making people feeling uncomfortable. Or most likely, I don’t look good when I laugh, and therefore don’t live up to the beauty expectations society places on women.

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How did I develop a behaviour to conceal something so natural as joy?

Men face similar pressure to conceal their emotions. Everybody cries (or at least has the ability to), and it’s an important emotional release that allows us to recover from grief or heartache more quickly. Yet we all contribute to these gender expectations, whether we acknowledge it or not, and we put these labels on ourselves, too. A man might judge another man for crying even when he knows he’s done the same, and even if  he too was mocked for crying in front of someone. We perpetuate these cycles with each other, but we can also break them if we just choose to accept and love ourselves wholly and recognize that expressing ourselves, whether through an open mouthed laugh or a single tear, is a functional  and beautiful part of being human.

The recent #metoo hashtag has helped uncover the sheer volume of sexual harassment, assault, and/or abuse that most women experience in their day-to-day lives. By coming forward and sharing their personal experiences, women can offer each other new perspectives, and shed light on those times when they weren’t sure an incident crossed the threshold of harassment. This is an example of breaking the cycle. Not only is this positively affecting and uniting women from all over, it’s also giving men a deeper look into the lived realities of the women around them.

While you could call this hashtag divisive, as something striving to pit women against men and blaming them as the perpetrators, I’d argue it’s the opposite. Men often feel ashamed to admit they have either witnessed harassment or experienced it themselves. And women aren’t asking for sympathy, we’re asking for accountability — and for change. It’s clear this issue is systemic, given the frequency of these experiences, so how can we fix it?

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One way may be to view each and every individual as a valued being worthy of respect and love. This doesn’t come from how we treat others, however, but how we treat ourselves. We need to stop censoring our emotions.

19-year old photographer Maud Fernhout from the Netherlands decided to create a photo series about overcoming gender stereotypes. She created two photo projects — “What Real Men Cry Like” and “What Real Women Laugh Like” — and has outlined her goals for them:

With this project, I try to get people thinking about how we view gender and gender roles. Why do we tell men not to cry, but to ‘be a man’? And what does that even mean? Why do women cover their mouths when they laugh, and why is it so weird to imagine a man doing the exact same thing? I am not trying to tell anyone who or what to be. If you identify as ‘a man’ and don’t appreciate crying, then don’t do it. But if you do feel like wiping away a tear while watching the notebook and eating ice cream in bed, don’t let something as trivial as gender roles hold you back. And girls, let those teeth shine. Joy is beautiful, and so are you.

Check out our related CE articles, like These Beautiful Drawings Showcase How We Stereotype The Female Gender & Why We Need To Stop and These 4 ‘Ordinary’ Men Got Made Up & Photoshopped To Match The ‘Ideal’ Male Body.

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Abductions & Car Vandalism – Startling Australian UFO Report Unclassified

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An uncovered Australian report performed by their Department of Defence. “Scientific Intelligence — General — Unidentified Flying Objects” is trending again. Those who have done extensive research on UFOs will find the Australian version of disclosure to be far more intellectually honest than the American version. Albeit it was conducted decades ago.

According to ex-US intelligence official Luis Elizondo, the Defense Department’s Inspector General is presently conducting three reviews. The inquiries vary from the Department of Defense’s handling of UFO claims to Elizondo’s alleged whistleblower retribution. The open IG cases are crucial to Australia’s report because they establish beyond a shadow of a doubt that the US Department of Defense is being dishonest and shady when it comes to the UFO subject. For decades, Australia has been a loyal friend of the United States. Within Australia’s boundaries, they share a military installation (Pine Gap). When a close defense ally’s intelligence agencies determined that the US was not being intellectually honest in its approach, perhaps it is reasonable to conclude that there is more to the tale than the 144 incidents studied since 2004 by the UAPTF.

The CIA became alarmed at the overloading of military communications during the mass sightings of 1952 and considered the possibility that the USSR may take advantage of such a situation.

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According to the summary, OSI, acting through the Robertson-Panel, encouraged the USAF to use Project Blue Book to publicly “debunk” UFOs. In a tragic twist of fate, when Australian authorities sought explanations from the US Air Force, the allegation was debunked. The authors of the study were depicted as conspiratorial and even crazy by the US Air Force. Ross Coulthart reported this, and it may be heard in a recent Project Unity interview. Courthart is an award-winning investigative journalist who is drawn to forbidden subjects. He also stated on the same podcast that a senior US Navy official identified as Nat Kobitz told him that the US had been in the midst of reverse-engineering numerous non-human craft. According to his obituary, Mr. Kobitz was a former Director of Research and Development at Naval Sea Systems Command.

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PGA Tour To End COVID Testing For Both Vaccinated & Non-Vaccinated Players

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    The PGA Tour has announced that it will stop testing players every week, regardless of whether they have been vaccinated or not.

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    Are PCR tests appropriate to identify infectious people? Should people who are healthy and not sick be tested at all, anywhere?

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The picture you see above is of John Rahm, a professional golfer on the PGA tour being carted off the golf course after tournament officials told him he had COVID. He was healthy and had no symptoms, yet was forced to withdraw from the tournament. He was told in front of the camera’s, and a big scene was made out of the event. You would think something like that, especially when you are a big time sports figure, would be done behind closed doors with some privacy.

Earlier on in June a spokesperson for the PGA Tour said that more than 50 percent of players on the PGA tour have been vaccinated. Although it seems that the majority of players on the tour will be fully vaccinated judging by this statement, it does leave a fairly large minority who won’t be, and that’s something we’re seeing across the globe as COVID vaccine hesitancy remains high for multiple reasons.

We are pleased to announce, after consultation with PGA Tour medical advisors, that due to the high rate of vaccination among all constituents on the PGA Tour, as well as other positively trending factors across the country, testing for COVID-19 will no longer be required as a condition of competition beginning with the 3M Open. – PGA tour Senior VP Tyler Dennis

The tour recently announced that the testing of players every week will stop starting in July for both the vaccinated and the unvaccinated. This was an unexpected announcement given the fact that, at least it seems in some countries, vaccinated individuals will enjoy previous rights and freedoms that everyone did before the pandemic. Travelling without need to quarantine and possibly in the future not having to be tested could be a few of those privileges. Others may include attending concerts, sporting events, or perhaps even keeping their job depending on whether or not their employer deems it to be mandatory, if that’s even legally possible. We will see what happens.

Luckily for professional golfers, regardless of their vaccination status they won’t have to worry about testing positive for COVID, especially if they’re not sick. This is the appropriate move by the PGA tour, who is represented by their players and it’s a move that the players themselves may have had a say in. It’s important because PCR tests are not designed nor are they appropriate for identifying infectious people. A number of scientists have been emphasizing this since the beginning of the pandemic. More recently, a letter to the editor published in the Journal of infection explain why more than half of al “positive” PCR tests are likely to have been people who are not infectious, otherwise known as “false positives.”

This is why the Swedish Public Health agency has a notice on their website explaining how and why polymerase chain reaction (PCR) tests are not useful for determining if someone is infected with COVID or if someone can transmit it to others, and it’s better to use someone who is actually showing symptoms as a judgement call of whether or not they could be infected or free from infection.

PCR tests using a high cycle threshold are extremely sensitive. An article published in the journal Clinical Infectious Diseases found that among positive PCR samples with a cycle count over 35, only 3 percent of the samples showed viral replication. This can be interpreted as, if someone tests positive via PCR when a Ct of 35 or higher is used, the probability that said person is actually infected is less than 3%, and the probability that said result is a false positive is 97 percent. This begs the question, why has Manitoba, Canada, for example, using cycle thresholds of up to 45 to identify “positive” people?

When it comes to golf, the fact that spread occurring in an outdoor setting is highly unlikely could have been a factor, but it’s also important to mention that asymptomatic spread within one’s own household is also considerably rare. It really makes you wonder what’s going on here, doesn’t it?

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